By Dr. Tyreese McAllister & Dr. Jacquelin Maxwell. This book is a guide for parents, teachers, mentors, friends, etc of children who have been traumatized by gun violence and homicide. This book I an awesome resource that addresses both grief and trauma in children who have experienced homicide. This guide complements my children’s book, Is My Lollipop in Heaven? which is a book that helps children begin to process and heal after losing a loved one to gun violence.